“Grown-up scissors” – that’s what a young boy, just turned five, told me his older sister got for her birthday.
“Grown-up scissors.” I thought about it all weekend long.
It was the way he said it – the look on his face – the awe in his eyes – the respect – the understanding of what getting “grown-up scissors” meant.
And I wondered, as a society, how much are we losing in our present-day culture of offering everything now, sooner versus later, too fast, too much?
Are we taking away our children’s experience in anticipation, in expectation, in awe?
There used to be more things like “grown-up scissors” in our children’s lives – like watching and waiting to play in organized sports, extra-curricula lessons, even in riding a two-wheeler.
There were more stages to “live in” for a while, more stages to wait and anticipate and grow into, more time, more satisfaction and readiness when the time arrived.
So thank you, Leo, for sharing with me your still sweet, pure expression of awe, and your understanding that “grown-up scissors” are a big deal.
And someday …yes, someday, you’ll have “grown-up scissors” too.