Monthly Archives: November 2018

Ah goo

A friend shared a video on her phone recently of her grand-baby – blowing bubbles,  gurgling and murmuring the  totally precious  “Ah goo!”

Oh how the sweet innocent sound of “Ah goo” is to our ears – whether the baby is ours or not.

But then there are the 9-month-olds who sometimes shriek just for the sheer enjoyment of using their voices, to the toddlers who  mightily screech when something doesn’t quite go their way, to the preschoolers who just want to talk and talk and tell you everything – right this very minute, to the teenagers who perhaps only talk when they “feel”like talking… and it’s often difficult to remember how thrilled we were when we heard our baby’s first sounds.

However each one of these stages of our children’s verbal expressions is as important – as significant on their developmental path –  as this baby’s melodic “Ah goo”.

But to be honest – it isn’t always easy to respond positively  every time- to appreciate these later stages for what they are.

And so sometimes we don’t.

But when we do –  when we pay heed to the message each stage shares –  whether it’s delight, frustration, complaints, excitement,  or conversation –  we learn –  it’s  really all about reaching out.

It’s really all about  connection – about connecting with us.

Oh, of course.

“Ah goo.”

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A November thing

It happened again.

The word goes out to The Parenting Place Advisory group families that it’s that time of year – time to meet up at Riverside Park on an always chilly afternoon – to decorate The Parenting Place Rotary Lights Christmas tree.

This has been going on every November for many Novembers now.

It’s not always easy to lure people out of their cozy homes on a wintry Sunday afternoon (even when the Packers aren’t playing), but we have our dedicated families that have been showing up year after year.

And so we end up with a group ranging from preschoolers to middle -schoolers – even a high schooler – all arriving good-naturedly  along with their parents  – to catch the spirit – the spirit of coming together, working fast,  enjoying hot chocolate, holiday cookies and donut holes – in between blowing on cold hands to try and warm them.

And as tradition has it – we work together, munch together, and then we play together.

This year it was a quick and rousing game of “sticker tag” – generating warmth and excitement from running, laughing,and  shouting “Got you!”. All it takes is each person having a few sheets of colorful sticker dots – and the sound of GO – and watch out.

The person with the fewest dots on their jacket is the winner. Not that anyone cared who won.

It was just fun to chase and leave your mark!

And leave their mark they did – not only with stickers on my jacket but on my heart.

Thank you guys!






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Brothers – that’s what resonated with me after our recent visit with our two grandsons, Theo and Zeke.

It seems that Zeke has sneaked out of babyhood and right on in to a young toddler with eyes toward and imitation of what his big brother Theo is doing.

Most of the time.

Sometimes still, however, you see him staring at his big brother – and then turning away as if to say ” I don’t think so – maybe not ready for that”.

Yet I can see already the friendship these two boys will enjoy – sense the bond that is growing.

On a chilly day after Halloween, Grandpa Dick and I were outside with the boys.  They had their cut-out pumpkins on their wagon and they were busily digging and filling them with dirt from a nearby garden bed.

Watching them “work” together on this project proved the suggestion I’ve so often given to parents – “get your kids to work on a project together and you’ll feel the connection and the partnership grow.”

And work these two did. (they were pretty large pumpkins!)  Of course it was made even more “magical” by a coin appearing now and then in the hole as they turned away to fill their pumpkins. (Remember I told you Grandpa Dick was there – and you know how grandpas can be!)

Ah, what a surprise – what a discovery!  “There’s Gold in them thar holes!”

There was “gold” for sure – not only in the dirt pile, but definitely being discovered between two brothers – working together.


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Vote yes

Tomorrow is Election Day – and that might not seem like a particularly family-oriented event …  but … it could be!

Because children learn by participation.

So if we start when children are young – by talking about election day coming up –  by sharing your voting experience with them by taking them to the polls with you – by watching you vote – by giving them one of the “I voted today” stickers to wear – by discussing issues with older children -I believe our children will grow to value and appreciate the significance – and the responsibility –  of casting a personal vote for the candidates of their choice.

And … you know how children love to make choices.

You might even have some  fun with  voting participation at your house – for something as yummy as dinner – or snack.  What will your vote be?  How about a child-friendly ballot – perhaps for  grilled cheese sandwiches? pizza? spaghetti? ice cream, your family favorites?

I say Vote Yes – for family participation!

Voting tomorrow – Tuesday, November 6th .

Make it a family affair.





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