I started thinking about being “stuck” recently after hearing daily reports on the national news about this huge container ship – the Even Given – a ship as long as the Empire State Building is high – stuck sideways in the busy Suez Canal – unable to move one way or another – holding up international ship traffic and significant cargo for at least 5 days now.
And I couldn’t help but think about how each of us probably gets stuck occasionally – whether we realize it or not. (often it’s someone else that might point this out to us).
” Yeah – maybe I am stuck” – not moving one way or the other – can’t make up my mind – frustrated – keep doing the same thing that doesn’t seem to be working over and over again.
Yep – I’m stuck!
And – just saying – we’ve all been probably feeling more than a bit “stuck” this whole past year with concerns, restrictions, indecision, and anxiety about the pandemic in our midst. And now – when hope is on the horizon – we need to get unstuck – in the most safe and helpful ways that we can.
If you are familiar with one of my favorite “Winnie the Pooh” stories- when Winnie gets “stuck” in the doorway of Piglet’s house after eating far too much of his favorite treat – honey! – something had to change – right?
And when we’re stuck – usually something does need to change.
So … being stuck is often a good thing – because the way to get “unstuck” is usually a helpful, improvement.
If you happen to be feeling maybe kind- of , sort-of stuck, perhaps about parenting struggles, behavior issues – please don’t forget the ease of contacting a Parent Educator at The Parenting Place – 784-8125 – to give you a gentle push – a Boost I like to call it – to guide you in a different direction OR perhaps support you in the direction you’re already going.
Because often – especially as parents – we can think we’re stuck- only to realize – we’re just where we’re supposed to be.
It just takes time to realize it.
It might take time to appreciate it.